First Aid Kit for Divorced Parents

One of the most effective methods of getting custody of children when women accuse their husbands of criminal charges. When the husband is in jail, perhaps his biggest concern is leaving her to think about divorce. This time allows your wife to take possession aggressive children and household prosperity.

Custody of children is paramount to winning the case of divorce!

The first wound for divorce

For most men is the first time made a massive discharge of their hits and are staggered. People who have hurt, probably prepare to take advantage of this imbalance.

Stop and think clearly

No matter how stable the current situation, no matter what other advice you have received the clock is ticking faster than you think. Act now!

This first aid kit has been assembled by men who have survived the crisis we're going through. You're not alone. By recognizing the predictable aspects can take control of the situation, but you have to do it now.

When your divorce is just beginning

If your wife is taking the initiative to divorce, consider the inevitability of divorce. They have absolute power to make it unstoppable. Take the initiative. Get a lawyer NOW.

Do you want custody of your children? Convince your lawyer to get a temporary custody order, effective immediately and then see if you can switch to a permanent injunction.

Do not sign anything before the divorce process

Many men, in a misguided attempt to stop the divorce, have signed preliminary agreements later his lawyers find difficult to undo. Many husbands have times of despair and give up all their possessions, their children and the rights to them.

Do not you move until the divorce is resolved

The house is yours too. If possible keep children with you in the family home. This will help to stabilize them emotionally and to obtain permanent custody, if you wish.

If you need a babysitter or someone to help you make the toilet, do you need to get a person to help you with these tasks. These few days or months ahead may be crucial to demonstrate to a judge that you are the more responsible and caring father of two.

Serves court orders immediately

She can sue you to leave home, seize your assets or freeze your assets, and so on. Do not miss these orders when they arrive Send her away immediately.

Evaluate your divorce lawyer

Pay attention to phrases like, "You have many possibilities of custody", "let it stay with the children, we will come back later", "do not have to be present at the hearing", etc.. Be careful when your lawyer tells you these things. Such statements are indicative that lawyers have no experience in divorce or maybe just struggling to get "what you can." For most men, this is the hardest part of the case. If for any reason, you suspect that your case is not progressing, find another lawyer.

Money, money, money

No one is prepared to sue their rights, but no matter what your financial situation, now is the time to think carefully. You'll lose a lot if you do.

Most attorneys will take your wife, if you do not have to pay. You may not have come to that and you pay an upfront fee or throw out to your assets.

If you want custody, you could cost a large sum, so think before you pay.

What is important to you now? What will be important in the coming years?

If you have assets, see if they can help you with legal defense.